Tue Jan 18 2022
Hi friends,
Are you feel alone now? Do you feel like you do not have friends or are left out sometimes? If yes, I feel the same also.
Recently, I realized that actually, I don’t have that thing that we call as BFF. I saw a lot of posts on social media that are about friends. In the Instagram account like travel together with the caption “best friends forever”. To be honest, I want to do the same, but the reality is that I just do not have any. Recently I also feel that I am being left out from a group of friends that I thought that we are friends but actually we are not.
There’re many times that they invite me to go travel or plan to go on a trip together but in reality, when the actual time comes, I am the one who is always being left out. In my opinion, I have really tried my best to out from my safe zone to fit with them, but all my effort is for nothing.
Dear friends, if you are feeling the same as I am, I want to let you know that you deserve to be happy. It is true that everyone needs friends to accompany each other but the moment you are working so hard to be accepted to their standard, trust me it is better to be alone.
Alone.
Alone sometimes is not that bad. Recently, I went to travel to Krabi, Thailand with my special one, his friends, and coworker. That first, I thought that I will feel alone, but I did not. I figure out that, even though I am alone I do not feel alone instead I learn to be happy and see what the world has. I can have my personal moment with nature, sitting under the sun and space in my mind. I do not have to give my attention to others or overthink about what consequences can happen “if I want to be alone, will they think I am antisocial?”
It is okay to be alone. Alone does not mean you are alone. Let’s look at the positive side.
We are more likely to have time to ourselves. We have all the time to study, personally grow separately in financial, work, beauty, belief, mental and physical.
We are more likely independent being alone. Since we are used to doing everything by ourselves, we are more likely independent than usual.
We are more likely to appreciate ourselves than usual people. Since we use to do everything by ourselves, we learned to appreciate ourselves by rewarding ourselves for what we have achieved.
Remember:
we deserve to be happy. Never compare ourselves to other people. Others’ life might seem more colorful than ours, but remember we are the real pencil color. We must use power to make our paper look either rainbow or stormy. Whether we choose to be happy or sad, you and I deserve to be happy and I choose to be happy.
See you soon 🥰
Job hunter! When someone asks why that person is super lazy,can't she just put in some effort and work on her own instead of relying on someone else? you know what? It's not always that easy for everyone to land a job, especially one that aligns with their interests or field of study. Speaking from my own experience, finding a job in my field of study has been a real struggle,being jobless can be incredibly stressful. It's not all about chilling all day and sleeping in till the afternoon like some people might think. Trust me, it's not as glamorous as it sounds. Let's face it, in this day and age, everything is all about advancement. In the past, having a diploma or degree would pretty much guarantee you a job, but now, even having a Master's degree is becoming a necessity. I mean, even some Starbucks baristas have bachelor's degrees. The hiring standards just keep getting higher as time goes on. And let's not forget the stress that comes with being jobless. It can really take a toll on your mental and physical well-being. I graduated just 6 months ago in May 2023, and I've been struggling to find a job ever since. I've applied to countless companies and organizations, but unfortunately, no one has given me an opportunity yet. "It's only been 6 months? I've been searching for a job for 2 to 3 years and I'm still hanging in there!" Well, we all have different mental capacities to handle these kinds of situations. We're all wired differently, but that doesn't mean we should give up. I'll be honest, I sometimes feel a pang of envy when I see my friends with jobs, living their lives and buying whatever they want. It makes me wonder, "What do they have that I don't?" or "Why are they so lucky while I'm struggling?" But you know what? I don't have all the answers. Maybe, just maybe, there's a bigger plan in store for each of us. Friends, I know how tough things can get, and I'm right there with you in this struggle. But listen up, we can do this! Our time will come, sooner or later. I can't promise you when, but trust me, our moment to shine is just around the corner. So let's stay strong, hold on tight, and never give up.
Monolog #flimmaker
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